In a lot of scenarios it is necessary to get a girls number to set up a date. When you first approach a woman you can usually tell if she is busy, or isn’t open to spending more time with you in that moment. In that case you can get the phone number. How you go about doing this is and important part of the process and we will look at all the details.
1. Why Get A Girl’s Number?
Getting the phone number is a way to tell if the girl is interested in you. In a way, it can be your way of telling her that you are interested in her. Whether you use the number or not is not important. It is the intent shown by getting the number that is important. It shows you are interested in her romantically and not just wanting to let the conversation end. If the girl gives you the number without telling you she is married or has a boyfriend, then she is interested in you at that moment.
The minute you hear “I’m married”, or “I have a boyfriend”, then its game over and its time to move onto the next girl.
2. How Should You Get A Girl’s Number?
You shouldn’t really use the number to make any kind of plans. Many guys (including myself from time to time), still make the mistake of getting the phone number without making plans.
The best technique is to make the date before getting the number. This makes it clear that you are setting up a time to meet her and you mean business. You must have your venue, time and reason to way for her to get there all pre-planned before you ask her. If you want to meet her at your house that same night and that you will be busy studying but its the only time you have, then go with the plan. If you have no plan then you will fail and nothing will happen. So make sure you have the details all squared away first.
Ideally the process to get her number should follow as:
You open her and introduce yourself.
Make sure that she is attracted to you or you might be wasting your time.
Introduce the idea that you two may see each other again to judge her response.
If her response is positive, indicate that you might be free to meet her at a chosen time and destination.
See her response. If she says she can’t and she is busy, then she is probably playing games and you should give it a miss. A girl will drop any plans to hang out with a new guy that she is really into.
Those guys she isn’t interested in she will put on the back-burner by telling them “she is busy”. This is a female code designed to block the date, and still be polite.
If you get any positive response then you are probably good to go.
When you end the conversation ask her how she plans on finding your address or your venue.
Tell her that you guys could exchange numbers if she gets lost, and she can call you if she needs directions. This is the smart man’s way of getting the number. She is now far more committed because she made a promise to you in person rather than on the phone.
This is the easy man’s way to get a girls phone number. It is easy, effective and it works. Go out, use it today and see the results.