As a man, it can be very frustrating to want to do it, and your woman doesn’t feel the same way; it gives the feeling of both anger and unattractiveness. However there’s nothing that ever happens without a reason, women don’t just turn down the opportunity to have se_x with their partner for nothing; if they do, there’s a reason why.
On this post, I’ll be listing some of those reasons and shedding light on them.
Women are humans too, they may engage themselves in tiring activity through the day, and end up very exhausted at night. If their partner wants to have s_ex with them the same night, there’s every likelihood that they won’t bulge to his request because they lack the energy to get down.
2. POOR LIBI_DO
While most men and women have a very high se_x drive or libido, there are others who do not. People like this rarely feel the urge to have se_x, even if their partner wants to. If you’re a man and your partner has refused you s_ex, this could be the reason; it doesn’t necessarily mean that she’s not attracted to you anymore. So, rather than hold it against her, seeking a solution is the wiser move. There are many drugs and procedures that can help people with this condition.
3. IT’S THAT TIME OF THE MONTH
This is one of the commonest reasons why women don’t want to have se_x with their man. When it’s that time of the month, most women have no interest in anything else, except trying to see it out. Even if as a man you have no problem with getting down with a woman in her period, she may not respond to your advances.
Wait it out, man, it’s just a couple of days, yea?
4. THE PENNY IS HUMO_NGOUS
Forget all those things you see in por_no, there’s a limit to how much a big pe_nny can satisfy a woman; if it’s too big, it simply can hurt her instead, and that can be a turnoff for women. The whole point of se_x is to get pleasure, isn’t it?
5. THERE’S SOMEONE ELSE
As sad as this is, it’s true, so I can’t skip it. Women can definitely turn down se_x if they’re no longer attracted to you. When someone is no longer attracted to you, they lose total interest in everything related to you, including se_x.
6. THEY DON’T GET WHAT THEY WANT
We all have se_xual fantasies and fetishes, and we expect our partners to indulge us, sometimes. There are women who enjoy being spanked or staying on top for example, but most men wouldn’t have that because they want to be ‘in charge’. This can put a woman off, and make her lose interest in having s_ex with her man; I mean, let’s face it, what’s the fun in it, if you can’t get what you want out of it?
7. POOR CONFIDENCE
There are people who just don’t feel comfortable being nak_ed, either because they think they don’t look great when nak_ed or they just can’t get over their shyness, and it can be a problem in bed because she’d rarely want to do it, even if the man is dying for it.
Poor confidence can also be as a result of her s_exual abilities. If she’s not confident in her own abilities in bed, it can scare her away from the act.